I’m 20F, he’s 25M. We met in January and have been dating since last month. He’s already met my parents - they love him, and he hangs out at our house all the time. Literally no one has any issues with him, he’s super welcome here. I invited him to sleep over for a few days this week just for fun, but he said he’s not comfortable with it - apparently it feels too “intimate” for him? Like, he’s got this thing about doing private stuff with other people around. I just want him to relax a bit. We’re all adults here, and everyone knows people have private lives. How can I help him feel more okay with it?

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    I don’t know where the 4 weeks and 30 days comes from since now it is June and they met in January . The rest are all true.

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      It comes from OP: “We met in January and have been dating since last month.” (Emphasis mine.)

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          I don’t understand a thing since your initial reply to my comment or why you had to mention anything about weeks and days under my comment.

          OP says they met the BF months ago and then started dating about a month ago. I don’t know what’s with the weeks and days there, checks out to me.