• morrowind@lemmy.ml
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    1 month ago

    she has a key and didn’t want to wake him. It’s not weird if they’re close

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      1 month ago

      Absolutely. If you’re dating for 6+ months, you get keys and the expectation not to wake someone when they might be sleeping. Respecting boundaries is sexy as fuck.

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      1 month ago

      She has a key, they are close and somehow she is doubting the relationship cause she saw him do silly things when he thought he was alone?

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        1 month ago

        Interestingly, successful relationships require making mistakes, accepting them, and growing. If she hadn’t learned that now, she will.

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          Nobody made a mistake here though? She just needs to chill, if the biggest worry she has is how silly her boyfriends can be when alone then she already has the perfect relationship

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            Well, she seems to have maybe made a mistake in judging it… …but, that’s natural. It takes time for people to become comfortable with ‘weird’ things. There aren’t as many examples of people being quirky as there are of people being image obsessed, and that’s hard for some people to shake.

            But overall, agreed.