In the last year or so I started to see so many people of my age that have done truly incredible things and still doing more.
For the vast majority of my life my only goals were gettimg academic satisfaction and doing unproductive stuff in the free time to get temporary pleasure. No end goal whatsoever.
I kind of don’t know what I’ve been doing in the last 17 years while someone gets a patent on solar systems, other invents a new recyclable plastic, and another found a successful startup. I mean, they all find what they’re supposed to be doing with their lives and excel in them.
I feel overwhelmed for trying to pace up with these kind of people. Yet I don’t like the way the things are and I can’t do anything but envy those people.
Anyone with experience in this regard? How did you deal with this? Did you eventually “pace up” with these people or was it too late or an unattainable goal?
Edit: Whoops, I didn’t expect so many replies! Thanks, I’ll look into them all

  • YoBuckStopsHere@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Maybe I am the wrong person to answer, but no. I’ve had one hell of a life so far. I worked in television, I interned for the Walt Disney Company, I served in the military, and as a result, traveled the world and lived in Europe. I even was a part of the convoy that recused Joe Biden in Afghanistan (my role was minor but I was there). All of that started because I didn’t want to stay in my hometown and left to pursue something much more interesting.

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      1 year ago

      You were there in 08 too? I remember a bunch of senators crash landing in a snowstorm didn’t get to participate though.

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        1 year ago

        There was a snowstorm up in the mountains but the helicopter didn’t crash, the weather was too dangerous to fly in. I was traveling with Arizona Reserve troops and we were diverted to go pick up Joe Biden, Chuck Hagel, and John Kerry. All we knew at the time was some DVs needed a pickup and I never even saw them until we got back to Bagram where we were told who we picked up.