• TempermentalAnomaly@lemmy.world
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    1. Take a 30 minute walk every day regardless of weather.
    2. Take three months off from video games. The first three weeks will suck. Remind yourself several times a day that this is for something possibly better.
    3. Don’t linger on your past mistakes beyond a reminder of where you don’t want to be. Buildingg your character is a path filled with wrong turns and mistakes. The best we can do limit the effects of those mistakes based on our setup. … Build character like you would in a rogue like if that’s helpful
    4. Develop emotional awareness and intelligence. That’s a book and a skill.
    5. Talk to people with the respect you want to receive.
    6. Accept the parts of yourself you can’t change. You’re 5’ 3". Stand tall and own your space.

    Shittles… I need to do some of this stuff myself. Ha!

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      7 hours ago

      Build character like you would in a rogue like if that’s helpful

      Not gonna lie, developing oneself around instant gratification and easy disponibility to make it easier for the next guy after you is surely a hell of an advice

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        3 hours ago

        Taking a devil may cry attitude has been particularly therapeutic, though not curative, for my sanguine disposition. People stuck in ruts need not fear if the next guy is just you again. I sort think there’s a responsibilty to that next person, set up your runs well, have fun, and grind hard. Maybe there’s instant gratification I there, but my mind doesn’t feel that.