No idea. Sorry.

Sounds like something is incorrect in your setup. Nothing Lemmy does requires x11, dbus, or any display technology.

It defaults to config.hjson. Check the defaults.hjson file for a full list of options including the pool_size variable.

It’s in the Lemmy configuration file.

It sets the maximum number of active sql connections Lemmy will use. Don’t set it higher than what your PostgreSQL server is able to handle.

The setting goes in your Lemmy configuration file. The same place as your database settings.

I don’t use docker, so I’m not sure what you need to do there. Sorry.

Sounds like you need to increase pool_size: 5 to a higher number in your Lemmy configuration.

Add some memory and hard drives and slap TrueNas or Unraid on it.

That bad?

Last time I used Windows on my own was back in the XP days. I saw some of the early Vista and it was even worse. I can’t imagine what the recent versions are like.

Check the database pool_size variable in the Lemmy configuration.

Wallabag might work.

That’s lip service to privacy with spyware in reality.