I mean, it sucks but it is best practice.
She already learned that lesson by watching her dad fuck up, then fix the problem with his own effort. If he made her sit down and do the whole thing over again she would’ve instead learned a lesson by watching her dad fuck up, then fix it by making it someone else’s problem.
This is why I’ve always preferred the term GSRM: Gender, Sexual, and Romantic Minorities. It’s fully inclusive without ballooning out to an absurd size. I see no signs that it will see common use in the near future though.
Or a pretty fun party.