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Also unciv: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.unciv.app

This! You can never “win” or get the last word, but you can get the other person to show how bad their arguments are. You just have to trust that others will decide on what is right correctly.

Maybe try a more formal debate setting? I know there are some places like “the crucible” that facilitate that.

I doubt you will find anything on Lemmy unless you start up a highly moderated community. Even then, people can bring questions against the moderators.

Discussion and debate are pretty lawless in nature.

That’s by design. They weren’t interested in writing a good game or getting honest feedback. They wanted everyone to buy it and get money for it.

And when we finally learn their language. We can long distance shit post on the whale’s social media

Well, has anyone done a brain scan on him lately? I hear brain worms sometimes take a physical form these days…

Israel has always wanted to do a genocide. They funded Hamas so when they started the genocide they would have some kind of excuse.

I think it comes down to whether or not there is negative stigma with being circumcised.

We all have to set our own bar on this one, from my perspective, I don’t see that society really cares if a person is cut or uncut.

I would say that if this is causing problems for your life, then you should consider seeking therapy. Even if it turns out that society is gunning for you, getting help can make it easier to live in that society.

My dude, I’m circumcised.

I don’t get out much, is this a thing that happens a lot? I guess I don’t openly declare I’m circumcised to my social group. So there’s no way that they would know. But if they did would they make that a big deal? I have a hard time imagining that they would even care.

Are you sure this is a societal problem and not a friend group problem?

I sway back and forth. I’ll get into a heavy debate about something. It just burns me right up. I need to chill afterwards for a week or so.

I assume there’s more context than just the statements. If someone randomly happens to use the word cut or snippy in a sentence, I don’t think that means they are making fun of a circumcision.

A random person was just so upset that there was a post about a topic that they personally don’t care about, that they decided to whine about it in said post.

A lot of people care about cars. In some countries they are required to do anything.

So, do you do this often?

Yes, if you want an example, look at fetishes. Also if you look through history, you’ll find that what people considered attractive varied massively.

But also to your point, the media that we all consume says that this is the kind of person that looks attractive. And so if you ask most people what is attractive, they will tell you the standard Hollywood type.

But I think most people, if they see someone that gives them that happy brain tingle, would go for it even if who they’re looking at isn’t conventionally attractive.

Don’t get me wrong, if you’re not conventionally attractive, it does make things harder, but not impossible.

If you need a modern example, I’m a fat computer nerd, and my wife found me on the internet.

This is just venting? https://lemmy.world/comment/9580103

Then I’m not sure I can tell the difference between venting and someone giving an opinion that they are willing to defend. I’m also not sure how anyone could tell the difference.

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I sympathize and also I disagree that there’s only one curve. Everyone is different about what they like. One person uggo will be someone else’s hotty.

Now, if you’re not conventionally attractive that is definitely harder because everyone’s opinions are skewed.

I also understand that you may feel like just giving up on finding a match. If that’s the case, that’s you’re right. When you really do give up, please stop posting about how it’s impossible to find someone. You’re being discouraging to others who are still trying. And the only other option is State mandated partners. Trust me no one wants that not even you.

Oh you know that’s where the engineering effort is going

Hahahahahaha…

It’s cheaper if we starve to death.

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This happens in close source software too. You just don’t find out about it until it gets bad enough.