My dad didn’t have a wedding when he got remarried, but he invited me to be there when the papers were signed. Then he did it without telling me 🤷♀️ so “no” I guess. One day he was just like “oh yeah we got married yesterday”…
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isyasad@lemmy.worldto You Should Know@lemmy.world•YSK that apart from not having a car and voting, the single greatest thing you can do for the climate is simply eating less red meat.73·5 days agoAlso, I don’t think anybody honestly believes the argument that it is immoral to have children “without their consent.” The idea that you cannot do anything to someone else without their consent is a very useful idea in 95% of situations, and this is clearly one in which it does not apply. I did not consent to being born, but I would have if I could. Imagine a bureaucracy in which to apply for a passport, you needed to have an existing passport. It just doesn’t work. I can see the logic, but the idea has failed on a functional level. You can apply this to anything and make fake disingenuous arguments for any cause: “I don’t think we should elect a president unless they’ve already been president before. I think it’s a role where you absolutely need to have prior experience.” “You need to consent before being born. Since it’s impossible to do so, I guess it’s just immoral to have children.” See: Catch-22.
It is more difficult to have children now than it was 20, 40, 60 years ago. Some people feel the need to further justify their decision by convincing themselves that would be immoral to do anything else.
isyasad@lemmy.worldOPto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are your most recently visited Wikipedia pages?4·5 days agoLooks like the Wikipedia app
isyasad@lemmy.worldOPto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are your most recently visited Wikipedia pages?14·6 days agoMine:
- Bugsnax
- Sigmund Freud
- Doug Ducey
- Racial discrimination in jury selection
- Jaguar
- City of Gastronomy
Pseudoregalia is insanely good
I don’t have strict standards, but generally:
- usually upvote someone who responds to me with something substantial, even if I disagree
- downvote things that are antisocial (self-hate/self-harm, antinatalism, misanthropy)
isyasad@lemmy.worldto Anime@ani.social•Non-Japanese Native Speakers: How long were you watching anime before you are comfortable with watching your first episode without subtitles?English7·20 days agoAs someone who actually did learn Japanese through watching anime, it took me about 3 years. I started watching anime regularly in 2018 and when I was watching Hori-san to Miyamura-kun in 2021, the last two episodes had not been subtitled, so I watched them raw and mostly understood it.
A lot of people will say that it’s impossible to learn just via watching anime, but have not actually tried it. Yes, if you have subtitles on, it’s easy to let yourself totally ignore the Japanese. But it’s not impossible, and if you are focused, you can still learn even with subs turned on.
Later on, I started taking classes in Japanese at college and started learning a lot more. But just knowledge from watching anime was enough to pass an oral placement test and skip the first 2 semesters. If you are serious about learning Japanese, I recommend taking classes or studying it seriously online. There’s also better input resources than anime such as streamers or even conversation analysis audio for linguistics research.
But I am convinced that anime is still a very good tool because many people like anime and are already very motivated to watch it. This is a very big strength because the biggest obstacle to learning language is giving up. This, combined with Japanese’s very very simple grammar and verb conjugations actually makes it a very easy language to learn, imo.
isyasad@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's the longest you've gone without a shower/bath. Why?5·20 days agoWhat length of hair did you have?
isyasad@lemmy.worldto Anime@ani.social•Name an older anime you'd love to see make a full comeback?English3·24 days agoImo, pre-2012. I think you could also argue that 2018 or 2020/2021 is the start of the modem era of anime, or even 2006.
isyasad@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What were some computer programs and games you grew up with?6·25 days ago
Whatever you are… MAKE ME A PIZZA (Zoombinis)
Picture is of “Front Mission” (1995). I’ve never played or heard of it, tbh it is just taken from the Wikipedia page for tactical RPG.
isyasad@lemmy.worldto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•The state of YouTube history searchEnglish4·27 days agoBetter to just use browser history, OP could search “YouTube cream” and likely find it. I had to change my settings to stop Firefox from deleting my oldest pages in history though.
isyasad@lemmy.worldto Games@lemmy.world•PC Gaming’s Mascot Squad—who makes the cut?English5·30 days agoAgree with Gordon Freeman 100%. I might also suggest the Guide from Terraria and the CS:GO player models. Maybe also the player character from Noita, the goat from Goat Simulator, Quote from Cave Story.
These ones may be more niche, but for me personally I would also add Guy Spelunky, Princess Remedy, and Worm (Worms Armageddon).
isyasad@lemmy.worldto Anime@ani.social•New Japanese Law Stops Parents From Naming Their Baby 'Pikachu'English8·1 month agoI don’t believe it actually bans “Pikachu” when spelled as 光宙 because ピカチュウ is actually a pretty reasonable reading, although maybe not the #1 most obvious one. Based on a random Japanese article I read about it (link), I really don’t think 光宙/Pikachu will be technically illegal, although all the English articles will say so because it’s click fodder.
The law bans: things that are not related to the kanji reading at all, things that add unexpected extra stuff on the end of the obvious reading, or things that mean the opposite of what the kanji means.
I don’t believe any of this applies to Pikachu, and the examples they cite are not really comparable.
isyasad@lemmy.worldto Games@lemmy.world•Undertale will be 10 years old in 3 monthsEnglish6·1 month agoIn 10 months, Dark Souls III will be 10 years old
The improvised Country Roads scene may be my favorite moment in any Ghibli movie
- Only Yesterday - Probably my favorite movie ever. It’s so authentic and personal and real.
- Spirited Away - Really emotional and dramatic and surprisingly NOT overrated at all.
- The Wind Rises - Feels very personal while also feeling broad and important.
- From Up on Poppy Hill - I love complicated family situations, and I like the aesthetics and music.
- The Secret World of Arrietty - The philosophy of the characters in this one is actually really interesting.
So cute, are you watching CITY?