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  • It’s not necessarily how far things are, it’s that you need a car to get to places in a sensible way.

    I’m a fellow Brit, but have stayed in suburban US enough to have experienced how different it is. You might have a supermarket a couple of miles away, but if you want to attempt to walk there, you’ll often be going well out of your way trying to find safe crossing points or even roads with paved sidewalks.

    Train stations are mostly used for cargo in most US cities. If you don’t have a car, you’re pretty much screwed.

    Some cities are different. NYC being the obvious one. You can get about there by public transport pretty easily in most places there. San Francisco is another city that is more doable without a car, but more difficult than NYC.

    I stayed near Orlando not too long ago and there it’s just endless surburban housing with shops and malls dotted about mostly along the sides of main roads. You definitely need a car there.




  • So I deleted the story before I posted it, and began to realize that even though I’m 40, and should be past all this, it still hurts, and I’m a deeply broken person.

    The thing about trauma (and it likely is trauma) is that it often just doesn’t go away on its own and you need to do work on it. So, why should you be over it?

    Should is a loaded word as it pretty much always comes from what you learned as a child. You should do that. You should be like this.

    That “should” probably comes from your father when he told you how you should be as a child.

    It sounds like you aren’t over it now, but that’s ok. It’s ok not to be over stuff that happened in childhood. But the important thing to understand is that you can get over it with work. Being aware of that is the first step on that road.







  • Same, using Chat GPT 4. It explained the steps without prompting, which is different from the single line answer shown in the post too. I got this…

    Let’s break this down step by step:

    1. Sally has 3 brothers.
    2. Each of those brothers has 2 sisters.

    Sally is one of those sisters for each of her 3 brothers. Therefore, the second sister that each brother has would be the same other sister.

    This means that Sally has only 1 other sister, making a total of 2 sisters in the family (including Sally herself).

    So, Sally has 1 sister.


  • That one’s actually really easy to prove numerically.

    Not going to type out a full proof here, but here’s an example.

    Let’s look at a two digit number for simplicity. You can write any two digit number as 10*a+b, where a and b are the first and second digits respectively.

    E.g. 72 is 10 * 7 + 2. And 10 is just 9+1, so in this case it becomes 72=(9 * 7)+7+2

    We know 9 * 7 is divisible by 3 as it’s just 3 * 3 * 7. Then if the number we add on (7 and 2) also sum to a multiple of 3, then we know the entire number is a multiple of 3.

    You can then extend that to larger numbers as 100 is 99+1 and 99 is divisible by 3, and so on.